victims of abuse support for submissives

[ashtonDs]

Originally posted by Mr. FixIt:
It has taken years to get her to realize how beautiful, wonderful, caring, loving and intelligent she is. I could never utilize humiliation techniques with her. For her, such BDSM tactics would be demonstrative and demolishing of what I have tried to help her recognize.

Everyone has limits and those need to be respected. Some of us have more limits, some have different ones than others. It takes a good, person to see where things should not go. I have heard of some Dom/mes who treat hard limits as challenges, or personal mountains to conquer. You are right, it would be bad to push in that direction. stripey is one lucky woman to have you FixIt.

I can't say too much about you and your dad, it hits way too close to home for me. Unfortunately, it's still an open wound. Still, thanks for sharing.

[stripedangel]

Everyone has limits and those need to be respected. Some of us have more limits, some have different ones than others. It takes a good, person to see where things should not go. I have heard of some Dom/mes who treat hard limits as challenges, or personal mountains to conquer. You are right, it would be bad to push in that direction. stripey is one lucky woman to have you FixIt.

I can't say too much about you and your dad, it hits way too close to home for me. Unfortunately, it's still an open wound. Still, thanks for sharing.

aww ashton, how sweet of you to say, and i am very blessed. Master has made that choice all on his own, i did not post it as a hard limit. That is his hard limit...but one that i will not argue, as i do believe it would undo some of the work that Master has done.

Master's father has abused all of us, in various ways, who have been involved with him. He looks upon everyone with contempt and pity, like he feels that he has not prayed for them enough, no matter what they do. Nothing is good enough. i am a jezebelle. My son is a poor pitiful product of heathens. Master is never to be believed...Good ole dad has, time after time, questioned the validity of Master's claim that he ran a faster mile than his father. i was standing there when Master ran that race and i saw the time and told the man and he still sat there with that shitty little grin on his face, shaking his head at the two of us, with disbelief and contempt in his eyes. i could tell he was not accepting this very minute occurrance.

It's not like Master said , "i'm a better dad than you."
................................which is also very accurate.

The man even stated that a congregation member needed to be punished for her outspokenness.

Makes me even more proud of what i've seen Master grow into......