Hello, old hand finally posting here. (Feels a little like Alcoholics Anonymous here... "Hi, I'm Chuck, and I'm a Dom." "Hi, Chuck!")
Well, similar to Tojo, I am a Dom with a wife I am deeply in love with, but who has no clue how to react to D/s other than 'no spanking for me!!' She understands my needs, however, and encourages my long-distance relationship with my Sweet Yellow Rose. We have an hours-daily, meet in person two weeks a year relationship; the last couple years we have both lived for those meetings halfway between our homes. She was slightly educated in the arts by a few wanna-be small-d doms, and somewhat moreso by the Dom before me, however our relationship has grown to the point of deep love and respect.
Am I an addict? I certainly am! The moans of subspace blended with the sound of leather on her ass excite the hell out of me!