Masters Please introduce yourselves here

[Neon]

I am Sir Neon. I am just coming out of my shell so to speak. Honey and I have been married for about 10 yrs. and about 2 weeks ago we came to the realization the this (BDSM) is what we wanted for our lives. She then proceded to tell me that 1. she has always wanted me to TOTALLY Dominate her, and 2. she has always see a Dom inside me she just wanted me to come to it on my own. Well now we are off and running. I am eager to learn all I can to be the best Dom I can be not just for Honey but me as well.

[cyberian11]

My name is Drew and I've been dominant my entire adult life. It's just that my past pretty much rendered me a social submissive. (Strict religious upbringing in a female-dominant family tends to do that to you.) So, in the past 7 years that I've been embracing my true nature, I've been exploring the lifestyle gradually, mostly playing with newbies who've never been spanked before. (It's not hard to spot a submissive-in-the-making). But it's not satisfying, as very few bedroom submissives have a taste for edgier play. I moved to NYC to learn more and to meet skilled teachers. And to find experienced submissives to play with. Theoretical knoweldge is one thing, but it's time to put my learning into practice.

Drew

[SheUsesThem]

Hello I'm Mistress Carla from Texas, a fairly new domme but building a stable.
I'm the type who no matter what I do, I research and learn and know as much as I possibly can about something before I attempt to undertake it, 'cuz I hate to screw things up. So, I've been learning and exploring for years and have finally stepped in to this world. I still have a lot to learn, though, so will appreciate this site and the experience of the other dominants here.

TY.

[Master Obsidian]

Hello all:

I am Master Obsidian. I'm 43 and a freelance writer by trade although I've worked any number of jobs before being published. Including, but not limited to, IT (Server Support among others), Sales, business owner (2), and even set up circus tents for two summers. Although I was raised in California, I've lived in Arizona, New York, and England, before I settled in Florida.

Because of the nature of my work and that the revelation of my ahem ... particular kinks, would be detrimental to my continued success, my privacy is of utmost importance.

I am currently looking for a female sub, but am not interested in an empty-headed hoyden. Character and intelligence are high on my list.

[bondage_master111]

hi Dear,

I am a bdsm master looking forword to hear from you.As I am a dominant,i would
like to have total controll over you.I want to use whips and canes for all disobey made by my slave.
she won't allow to do anything without my permission.
I really want to see red welts on my slave's ass and thighs..
If you can accept me as a master,you are most welcome to contact me

bondage_master111@yahoo.com


with love
master

[Johnny28]

Hello. My name is John. I am a 28 year old Dom, quiet, reserved and always on the alert for new information. I am not currently in a committed relationship but do have a 'girlfriend' who is into spanking and light bondage. It's all good.

[babygirl2320]

Hello! My name is Barton. I am a male dom and sadist. My slave is the very lovely Katmandu who is also my wonderfull wife. I have been involved in BDSM for a few years. I like to incorporate pain into most of my scenes as it pleases me to do so. I would say that I have a fair ammount of pratical experience in real life, my slave and I strive to practice BDSM 24/7. We have tried the standard things like ropes and candles, but also like to play with whips, floggers, needles and have had fun with edge play. Since I am also one of the founding members and help administer the BDSM Academy I also have a fair ammount of experience in online BDSM.

If anyone should have any questions for me please ask. I check things every few days and would be glad to answer or comment on anything asked.

hi my name is babygirl2320 aka butterfly well im actually still searching but i do have a Master. but still looking for information on bdsm and well so far i have only found to be playing and learn ing at the same time but i need more info on the matter before i go into it further. i just recently became hip to the idea about a month ago and im still curious.i would be really grateful if you could help me out with any information you may have

[babygirl2320]

My name is Drew and I've been dominant my entire adult life. It's just that my past pretty much rendered me a social submissive. (Strict religious upbringing in a female-dominant family tends to do that to you.) So, in the past 7 years that I've been embracing my true nature, I've been exploring the lifestyle gradually, mostly playing with newbies who've never been spanked before. (It's not hard to spot a submissive-in-the-making). But it's not satisfying, as very few bedroom submissives have a taste for edgier play. I moved to NYC to learn more and to meet skilled teachers. And to find experienced submissives to play with. Theoretical knoweldge is one thing, but it's time to put my learning into practice.

Drew

hi im new to this life style so maybe you can help me learn

[BorderCollie]

Hi, I'm BorderCollie.
I named myself this as it's a typical "Workin' Class Dog".
I've been into BDSM since I was a kid, however never actually got to experience it until I was approx 19.
I'm married to my sub, and have been for 11 years....
I believe that BDSM should be fun as well as ummmmmmmm BDSM, and with that in mind I'll run to the end of the earth for a laugh and I'm known as a practical joker where ever I go.
Interesting how people constantly pick me as a Dom, as I am in construction so to speak and dress accordingly.

[In2kink]

Howdy all, I’m JR aka In2kink, and I’m a straight male dominant. I’ve been involved in BDSM for a little over ten years now, primarily offline other than a just a bit of online role playing. I’m divorced and not in a lifestyle relationship at present, just doing the vanilla dating thing.

A discussion with one of my dominant female friends sparked my recent interest in exploring the lifestyle online. Her position is that face to face is the only way to experience meaningful power exchange and BDSM play. Being the curious type and a part-time writer, I decided to see what the online scene had to offer and I hope to write about it in the near future. At first blush it seems like a great way for people to get their feet wet who have developed an interest in BDSM but aren’t quite ready for a face to face encounter. And just from the little I have read on this site thus far, it seems like many people do in fact find exclusive online encounters to be quite enjoyable and meaningful in expressing their kink side.

My introduction to the lifestyle came by way of a female switch that I was dating at the time. Knowing little beyond the general stereotypical information about BDSM, I began as a submissive but pretty quickly she helped me to understand that I was a dominant and not just a bratty sub! She helped me to learn my lifestyle role and since that time I have been blessed with meeting some other great mentors. I’m pretty excited to learn how I might translate my offline experiences to online.

I have a wide variety of interests with regards to the lifestyle so I won’t bore you with listing them here. Just suffice to say that my personal limits involve avoiding things that are illegal, that victimize any person or thing or that violate my own personal ideas about morality. Other than that, most everything else is fair game. I am pretty anal about enforcing rules and I like the more formal and ritualistic aspects of the lifestyle. I wouldn’t describe myself as a sadist per se but I do appreciate the use of degrees of pain within a scene to foster the feelings of being controlled for a submissive and to produce the rather spectacular contrasting sensations between pain and pleasure. Bondage is perhaps my most favorite BDSM activity but as mentioned I like variety.

Long term, I hope to again have a real life, 24/7 lifestyle relationship and in the interim perhaps I can meet a suitable submissive for some online experience to feed my kink needs. I’ve already found much to like about this site and look forward to getting to know and exchanging ideas with some of the very experienced people who are members here.

JR

[denuseri]

Wow sir what a great introduction,, I am sure you will find some online submissives more than willing to help you explore (WEG) all the asspects of online dominace sir, blushes and sooner than you may think too, giggles with my hand over my mouth geisha style

[Asmodeuss]

Hello my name is Asmodeuss I have been into BDSM since I was very young as I got
older and learned what it was and what it meant it interested me even more.
but being so young I didn't have access to fund's and BDSM store's so most of my
equipment was DIY. In my early teen's I was very lucky to find some people to teach
me about the lifestyle and I tried to learn everything I could from them and I am very
greatfull to them for that opportunity.

I have been out of the lifestyle for some time now(12 years).I've had a few playmate's
over the year's but they only liked to play and that just isn't as satisfying as living the
lifestyle. Since deciding to get back into the lifestyle this past month I figured I'd get
back to my DIY root's.I have started a few project's and I will post them on hear if
anyone is interested.

Right now I'm just looking to meet people who share my interest in BDSM
and find some local Dom/Domme's to help me hone my skill's so i can be the best Dom I can be.

[SadisticDesires]

Hello,
We are a male dominant and a female switch couple. We have been a couple for about two years and a half. The male have been into the lifestyle for about eight years and the female been introduced to it within the relationship. The male is a graduate student, PhD candidate and the female is a college student. We are seeking to add a female slave into our house. Please feel free to contact us if you are interested or simply looking for friends.

[KingSean]

My name is King Sean, just did the intro thing in that section. Thought I would introduce myself to my fellow doms. I am only 23 but I am ready to learn how to take care of and train my own sub. I don't like talking about myself so I will just throw out a couple lines. I always felt bored almost trapped by the vanilla world. It was time for a change. This site will be a catalyst for that change. I hope I found a path out of exile.

[Tonydog000]

I'm Tony. I'm just starting to explore my Dom side with an experienced sexual sub who is being very patient with me. I'm still going through the ' what if my family or friends find out ' stage Can anyone give me some advice or guidance?

I'll post again in a more appropriate thread if I find one, but new to this forum

[R_B26]

My name is Rich. My sub and I are very new to this lifestyle and really need some direction as to how to begin. Can anyone out here tell me how to start making this new lifestyle work??

[Masteramh]

Hey im 19 live in hull, Hoping to meet someone to live in a 24/7 relationship with, other than that just look around and learn som emore.

[Hans]

I am Hans and 57. I have only been in this lifestyle a few years with one sub for 2 years and just started to train one when I had to move. She did not want to move with me to San Antonio Texas, so I will be looking for a new sub once I get situated there.

I am always looking to perfect my techniques and style, especially if i learn a new area through my searching or if the sub wants to explore something different that I had not tried.

[sirbor]

My name is Sirbor and I am a Dom. From the height of my 56 years I look around and see a sea of possibilities. I lost my wife and sub 3 yers ago to illness and am now looking to leave the vanilla environment of the past couple of years and go back to my core reality. I'm not a sadist but am definately in control of my environment.

I enjoy bondage and am quite good with rope, a background in sailing, but also enjoy the use of leather and metal. I do not seek a 24/7 BDSM relationship but one that includes the vanilla aspects needed to deal with the world outside. I will admit to a serious Daddy orientation and find that there is something quite magical about lifting the schoolgirl skirt covering the shapely bottom of a submissive woman for a spanking.

[CookieMan]

Hmm. Where to begin. Here seems to be as good a place as any. I've been searching for a while now for a place to speak with like-minded folks. My name is Zac and I'm in a wonderful relationship. I'm not all that fabulous at talking about myself, but an introduction isn't so much about me as it is about me meeting everyone else, I suppose. I'm a bit of a sadist with a penchant for bondage and knife play. I guess that's enough for now, however I'll answer almost any question asked of me.

[Ellviah]

you seem interesting

[IAmCanadian]

Ok, time for me to finally post here.

I'm 29 year-old Dom from Canada. For most of my twenties I've been cycling through an unfulfilling triumvirate of boring vanilla relationships, half-assed online BDSM relationships, and being single. I've been inspired by some of the stories I've seen here, and some of the people I've met, to dedicate myself to the goal of meeting a submissive with whom I "click" enough to achieve a 24/7 (or near it), master/slave relationship. Relationship-wise, I was rudderless for a long time, but having arrived here and looked around, now I know this is what I want.

In terms of kink, I am a sexual sadist with a strong focus on (and talent for) verbal degradation and humiliation. Because of this proclivity, my counterpart would have to be a masochist, someone who would thrive on such treatment where conventional women might falter. I seek a submissive who enjoys being treated like a subhuman, stupid bitch- and with a mind sharp enough to revel in the contrast between that treatment and how she would be treated in a "conventional" relationship. Note that I'm not interested in someone who is *actually* subhuman and stupid. Rather, I am searching for an angel with qualities of wit and beauty, who is willing to crash through the clouds and down to the sordid earth, just for me.

I have always enjoyed the mental side of S & M much more than the physical, though the physical side of course if the one that gets most of the press. I'm perfectly willing to inflict pain (with bare hands or impliments) but it's never been my first choice- I prefer to inflict pain by tearing down established feelings of self-esteem, self-worth, and female identity. This is why I need to find a partner who can see the appeal of setting aside her myriad feminine complexities and becoming a dumb, worthless cum-bucket for as long as we both can stand it.

I am hoping to meet a vibrant woman, equally stunning in intelligence and physical form, who is willing to accept my collar and live the rest of her life as my companion, servant, and greatest treasure. A sense of humor and a sharp mind are a great start. Far from a cowed and hesitant slave who will never act of her own accord, I am looking for a proactive beauty is forever trying to find creative ways to please me. Together, we will aim to strike a perfect balance between her submissive proactivity and my orders and requirements.

The slave is not giving so much freely for nothing in return. She is buying something with her service, trust, and love. A Master who will cherish and love her until the end of her life, provide for her every need, and protect her with his life. In giving me these things, she purchases fair and honest discipline and the sharpening of her mind and body, and the absolute relationship security that comes with being the only woman alive able to fulfill the desires of her Dom.

Obviously this isn't the sort of relationship a person begins with just anyone. I don't intend to enter it lightly, or with the wrong person. I also believe I still have a lot to learn about the lifetsyle, and I'm learning more every day. It may be unrealistic for me to hope for, but I'm not afraid to hope. Perhaps it will take years for me to find the right person. But when it happens, it will be worth it.

- FS

[meh]

master meh....i like to have my sub experiment and then collect the information of her thoughts, reaction, and how it made her feel, so i know how to give effective punishments and rewards, as well more fun assignments...*shrugs*

[FatherTimejr]

Im a 20 year old dom, looking to learn more and grow into my stature, so to speak. I'm looking for a sub to work with, to be with and to learn from. I lack experience but I seek to broaden that greatly.

I my loves are what my sub loves, my pleasure derived from my own kinks, but in turn from hers, and teasing her with what makes her scream in pleasure, or pain, depending on we both feel. Communication is key to me.

Anyways look forward to speaking with everyone, learning and growing...oh and cumming -grins and adjust his halo, his finger starts to bleed as he pricks it on a horn-

[OwningXposed]

I am the owner of my pet, overxposed. Checking things out to see if we will stay awhile.

[Wyked Bytch]

Well Hello Everyone, My name is Wyked, I have been in the lifestyle about 15 years and have been off and on active here in our local BDSM community.I concider myself a sensual sadist who gets off on ( mentally my dear fellow pervs *smile*) reactions. I love to push limits both for the benifit of my subs and for myself. I also am willing to offer any assistance and or advice to anyone if they would like, I am by no means an expert but I am experienced and willing to share. Hope to talk to ya'll ~Wyked~

[TheseDays]

Let us see, to explain without rambling! Ah! I already am! >.<

The name is Grayson AKA Mr. Tomcat. Been involved in the lifestyle, knowingly? For about three or four years. My Girlfriend (tommiecat is her name on these forms. Hey you!) and I are involved in the lifestyle. She is collared by me online and we live a hybrid online/offline relationship (I suppose that would be the terminology). Soon to be 100% real life as well (yay!). As you can probably tell I am a fairly laid back person with a unique personality.

I am very multi-sided. My mood can change depending on the situation at hand (good or bad, you decide). I tend to make a lot of side notes (like this) when I am utilizing an online medium for communication so please be aware of that. xD

Pretty much open for anything that comes my way I guess. Always willing to share my opinion. (sometimes when it isn't needed...so bare with me!)

Not really going to get into my kinks and what not...since well, it's an ever growing list! Also they tend to stand out when you converse with me. So I am sure you will pick things up as you do so. I have my own views on what BDSM is as I am sure everyone else does as well. No surprise there!

Other then that I am a fun, easy going life-styler! Feel free to send me a PM or say hey in the chat room!

[dillinja]

Hello, my name is brian a.k.a. Dillinja. I dont talk about myself much, so writing a description is very funny to me. Im an odd ball, i definitly look at things from a different angle then most. I tend to piss people off accidently ( or on purpose ). I am the guy you dont want your cheerleader daughter to meet. I want to learn everything, i spend most my time on this site reading and trying to help others who intrest me. Thank you for reading my post.

[Master Will Tupper]

Namaste'. I am Master Will Tupper, a Gorean Lifestyler. I am married to my First Girl, tasta. We live with two cats, a vast library (it's interesting having a reference text that tells you how to say, "Take a flying fuck at a rolling doughnut" in Latin. You just _never_ know when that will come in handy! ) and a few toys here and there. I don't need many; my principal instrument of torment is the horrible pun.
I was a Gor fan long before I became a Lifestyler (Thank you, "Silk and Steel" and "The Gorean Voice"!) and for my First Girl and me (plus a few guest kajirae along the way) it has been an interesting voyage of discovery.
I wish you well.

[jeanne]

...my principal instrument of torment is the horrible pun.

Too funny!