Quote Originally Posted by loveslave
So yes it is very easy to tell if someone is a sub or dom but not likely your going to find out if there into the lifestyle.
But wouldn't that be just the kink interpretation? Admittedly I am not an expert but I have never heard of a sub or Dom in the vanilla world, which I've lived in for a few years.

Without guessing the BDSM part it would just be "she's a bossy bitch" or he is a "male chauvinist pig." If you add the kink element then it becomes more obvious, I would think. Just my opinion.