Expressing Love...Hmm What's That?

[DowntownAmber]

Ok, DowntownAmber. Just to clarify. Can you have a deep love with somebody you first didn't have a fling with? In other words, is a marriage just a long drawn out fling?

In answer to the first part, yes, I think that's possible. In my case I have loved prior to any type of "fling," and I'm not talking about love for a pet or a relative or a steak and baked potato.

As for marriage being a long, drawn out fling? I hope there's at least some of the fling element to it... *glances at J* *weg*

[tessa]

Tessa, I totally agree that religion isn't a part of this thread. But I think you underestimated the depth of "the edit" answer.

I know I did. Perspective and all.

The price we're willing to pay has to do with the pay-off.

This is in part why I put you way up there at the top of people I admire most, Tom. Because you get this. You so get the truth of that. Love you more. ~lil' hug~

As for marriage being a long, drawn out fling? I hope there's at least some of the fling element to it... *glances at J* *weg*

Let's hope that element is there, for the sake of love's longevity.