I am frequently identified because I wear an Eternity collar and wrist and ankle cuffs. I also have my Story of O ring on my left ring finger. This time of year they are particularly visible. Up until recently I wore them 24/7 but because I have started working in an area where no one is allowed to wear jewelry around their neck or on their hands or arms I have received permission to remove my collar and wrist cuffs during working hours. I feel quite naked without them.

Does it bother me when I am stared at or questioned about them? No, I am proud and honoured to be my Master's cherished slave. When I am asked why I wear them I tell the questioner that they are symbols in my chosen lifestyle that represent the commitment that my man and I have made to each other. That they are not unlike engagement and/or wedding rings as they were given and received in a ceremony where vows and promises were made.

On the other hand I don't think most people would ever guess that Master is into BDSM except when he is with me. He certainly doesn't dress the part. His dominance is soft spoken and subtle although he has been outed once or twice when he has forgotten and called me slave in public.

I have never felt that I was being discriminated against when outed although I know there are people who wouldn't approve. I am fortunate of course that I live in a city where the population is far more liberal and accepting than most.