Well, since I am in a somewhat vanilla marriage, I don't know how it would be for a 24/7 D/s relationship, but do I want that? Yes, I do. I definitely like the idea of it. Maybe if I lived it I might not like it, I don't know without trying it at least once. BUT, since I am in love with a man who is not into that, I guess I won't ever get to experience it.
I dearly love the time I spend with Ronn{s} and the nature of our relationship goes beyond the sexual. He does top me (mmmmm, oh so nicely), but he also listens to me and we talk as equals.
I think, for me, BDSM is an integral part of me, whether I live the lifestyle or not. I can't imagine my life without it in some form.