This is a bit difficult for me as I am new to this, but here it goes.
My wife and I have been married for about ten yrs. We have seven kids (yes I said 7). We have played at some BDSM things, such as bondage, spanking, and some role playing, but nothing serious. then about one week ago we happened across this site and started reading some of the forums and post. We then started talking about it and thought we would play at it again. She started telling me that there were some people that live their lives by BDSM and ask me what I thought about it. I said I didn't know what to think. Then it dawned on me that she was asking to take up this lifestyle. I asked her how far she wanted to take it, and she informed me all the way. She also informed me that for the whole ten years we have been together she has wanted me to totaly dominate her, that she always saw an "Inner Dom" in me, and that she was just waiting for me to come to it on my own. I was floored. So after alot more discusion we decided to fully take up the lifestyle. I made out rules for her, which are as follows:
Honey’s Rules
1. Honesty at all times. You will be honest and forthright at all times. To be dishonest to Sir is to dishonor Him. Dishonesty is punishable.
2. You must be respectful at all times. Do not show any disrespect in any manner, whether verbal or physical. This includes, but not limited to, yelling, hitting, and cussing at Sir, especially in front of the kids. To disrespect Sir, means punishment.
3. You will address Sir properly, “Dear” in front of kids and “Sir” or “Master” in private. To fail means punishment.
4. Must obey all direct orders, without question. To question is to be punished.
5. There will be no treason. To discuss this with anyone else without Sir’s approval means punishment.
6. Never question Sir’s authority, even if you are not sure of reason, especially in front of the kids. To do so means punishment.
7. You will learn to swallow. Not to means punishment.
8. You must present yourself as a lady at all times. This means everywhere, and entails make-up, shaved, and clean. You must start wearing at least a thong or g-string at all times. To break these rules means punishment.
9. You must memorize these rules and be able to recite them at Sir’s demand. To fail means punishment.
10. You will bath Sir once a week. This includes shaving.
Honey’s Nightly Routine
1. You will read to girls for 20 minutes every night and get them in their beds.
2. You will kneel naked for 20 minutes in closet to meditate on Sir and your relationship, and use this time to memorize these or any other rules that Sir may have changed.
3. You will write about the day and anything you felt everyday in a journal provided by Sir. Minimum of 150 words.
4. You will sit naked on bed and await any punishment that is to be given for the day.
5. You will service Sir at His command.
Punishment
1. Punishment will be given nightly for minor infractions.
2. Punishment will be given on a weekly basis for more serious infractions on Saturday night. If none is due then this time will be used for maintenance.
3. After every punishment or maintenance session there will be a discussion with Sir.
*These rules are subject to change at Sir’s discretion, and you will be informed in advance when change will take place.
Now, we know that we will have to iron out the wrinkles in this, but we are comfortable in that we absolutely love each other and we will make it work. We know that we will have to tweak these a bit here and there as time goes on. The biggest thing is that I finally get to take charge and that is the best gift she has ever given me.