Quote Originally Posted by her_Joe
Late to the party,

I have a game I play when I (frequently) travel -- I like to watch people to see if I can locate people who may be in the lifestyle. What I watch is their eyes to see who would thrive beneath the whip or handling it. Of course I have no way to know if I'm right or wrong, but I don't think of clothing or overt body language as much of a signpost.

Did I add something? HOpe so.
Never too late and yes you did add to this discussion, thanks.

That was my reason for starting this thread because I too found myself trying to identify those in the lifestyle. Seems by the posts here that is a very hard thing to do, which originally would have been my guess.