hmmmm

[gemmy]

"....If you told people who know me that I am into BDSM, 70% of them would bet their lives that I am a Domme. If we are talking just about my work place, that percentage rises to 98-99%.
Because, if, hypothetically speaking, one morning during daily briefing session I blurted out “oh, btw, I am submissive” some would think its funny, some wouldn’t believe it, while I wouldn’t get fired my boss might start to think I am not ambitious, driven or capable enough to be in charge, some would have misplaced concern that I am being abused and most importantly my subordinates, 95% of them male, sexist and some of whom still have a hard time stomaching the fact they have to take orders from a petit girl half their age would think that they now get to boss me around, that I am a pushover. In my family and professional life, when things fall apart I am the one who stays in control, the one everyone leans on, I am not inclined to burst their bubble. This is just a part of whom I am, it’s not the whole of me...."

God, that is so me as well lol - even some Doms (and I use the term loosely) say I Must be switch since I'm the boss at work and always have held positions of authority lol *rme*