Well, here I am again and seeing as this thread goes in and out of topic, guess I'll have my Tom reBUTTal. *giggles*


TOM wrote: But nobody ever has, and you won't? Has this happened to anybody? Ever? How isn't this just pure paranoia? But I don't think it's paranoia. I think you're just being shy but not admitting it to yourself. There's nothing wrong with being shy. I think it is very cute in moderate doses. We've all been in a situation where we've been shy and had to over-come it. We can all empathise. Just admit it! You won't lose anything.

So you've got nothing fear, have you? Embrace your shyness. It's useless to deny it. It's not like anybody is going to think anything else are they? Either people will think that you're bullshitting or a little bit cute. What do you think will play to your advantage in the long run?

Truly, Tom, I have no idea how it is in Sweden, but in America there's always some scandal on the news about people getting "caught" on the internet. With me, it most likely is paranoia, because the girl ain't shy - with words or actions. lol

And even though I find what you say extremely patronizing, I still have to shake my head and laugh out loud, because the way your mind works is sooooooo "cute." But even more humorous to me is that you know you're right. hehe

A thought just occurred to me, I wonder if men feel that they don't have to post pics, because there are, in comparison, fewer men than women? The reasoning behind this is that women often times "settle" for less than their ideal due to the shortage. Maybe that's why women post their pics more. I don't know - hehe- it made sense in my brain whilst I was thinking it. rofl.

Well, I'm taking my cute little butt and my opinon off the soap box now.