submissive

[cadence]

I fail to understand why that particular act would deem a submissive perfect?
Maybe in that particular Dominants eyes, this is the perfect submissive, but to others it is not the actions of a perfect submissive.
I don't know myself what a perfect submissive is. I know that sex activities do not make up the key ingredient to what a submissive is.


Then again this goes along the lines of to each his own.

Okay I'm going to out myself now, I have always been uncomfortable with my own kinks and fetishes, because yes I fear that people will judge me.
I am not the perfect submissive, and it's too bad Tourguide wasn't around see me say this, cause he'd be happy I did, but I can do just what was stated above.

I like anal sex a lot, I can easily beg for it. I can go ass to mouth without too much effort on my part, and no I don't always clean first with an enema.
It doesn't make anyone more or less perfect.
To me it's a kinky sexual act that some people can do it and others can't.

[Rowen]

Okay I'm going to out myself now, I have always been uncomfortable with my own kinks and fetishes, because yes I fear that people will judge me.
I am not the perfect submissive, and it's too bad Tourguide wasn't around see me say this, cause he'd be happy I did, but I can do just what was stated above.

I like anal sex a lot, I can easily beg for it. I can go ass to mouth without too much effort on my part, and no I don't always clean first with an enema.
It doesn't make anyone more or less perfect.
To me it's a kinky sexual act that some people can do it and others can't.

cadence, my respect for your outing. As with many kinks, some love it, some detest it... I am learning that as in any other relationship there are needs to be met, and a good dom will explore that need, push to the limit - but not over it.

As for the health issue..yes, feaces can transfer diseases. But just how about slaves having the time of their live while being gangbanged or whored out? There are still STD's... And the things I see inserted in penises...ouch!! Caning and whipping can go wrong also, wax can burn, ice can freeze, chains and handcuffs can cut and bruise..

What I want to ask here, of all places, is to not condemn of judge someone who has an other kink, even if it is a kink you don't understand. It is hard enough to be considered a "freak" to the vanilla world...don't cast people out here as well.

So, for you, a supportive hug...