Quote Originally Posted by Ilfyr
Wasn't that the question?
My intent was to ask if there were telltale signs that would define you as being part of the BDSM lifestyle. That's what I meant by "Can you be identified?"

What I have gotten out of this thread is that BDSM and vanilla lifestyles have many overlapping signs that could be interpreted either way. So probably in most cases you couldn't be identified.