Love and BDSM----Question?

[gemmy]

I've seen many who can do it either way - personally for me I want the whole package

[deigja]

I've seen many who can do it either way - personally for me I want the whole package

;-) dito. I want the whole package too.
I´ve already experienced the other way, A play-relationship based on deep trust. But I ended getting more and more feelings for him while he just enjoyed it the way it was. We endet it and are both happier this way...
In the end this lead to me meeting my current partner, master and love.
Because I learned that it would always be hard for me to keep feelings out and that I don´t actually want to keep them out of the relationship anyway.
Whole package or nothing it is for me ;-)