Harmony

Thanks for reading this, not so sure about posting a reply as it keeps my short comings in the pubic eye ( i joke of course) yes you are right to a degree, although every relationship is different, in essence the balance of power remains (this is my opinion by the way) the same as you say the sub sets the limits etc but it is the ratio of that balance that is altered limits are set together, and many Dom(me) s will seek to push these just as subs will test the boundary's set by their masters and mistresses, to say that once set these never change would be flawed, it is a flexible and constantly changing dynamic.

Keep posting, you do make an excellent point, as said in my humble opinion, I agree with you in so much as in surrender their is strength and trust, the sub does not simply capitulate.