It is not for me to critique a so-called dom for his preferences. Yet, having extensive knowledge and practice in the lifestyle, I would hasten to remind all of one important point. A relationship such as "dom" and "sub" should be founded on trust. The sub must show trust and the dom must be responsible to do nothing which jeopardizes the subs' health and welfare.

True, things do go wrong (not with myself) but that is usually a lack of fore-thought, experience, or just getting caught up in the moment and fogetting caution. However any deliberate activity, and I emphasize any, should be the product of knowledge and understanding of the activities, their action or reaction, and possible consequences.

In my own relationships I actually have a written contract. The do's and don'ts and taboos are written out as well as a "safe word". I never forget that while I am expertly trained, advised and practiced; my sub is in fact the key to my empowerment. I am always cautious, understanding, and considerate. As a Master (I detest using that word to describe myself) I must be responsible !

Each to his own. But again, please exercise good judgement and caution.

With respect,

Dark_Perversion