Thank you, craven for starting this lively discussion from which we all have learned something.
The two women you mention in your article are First Class AAA women and i hope you know how lucky you are to have a relationship with them.
I too often have a perceived problem of either trying to control or bragging about my relationships with certain of the very best Dommes here, (so i won't). In fact, i was sent here to look at your letter so that i could learn. Right now i am deeply engaged in learning humillity and as you can see, i still have lots to learn.
Hope to see you in chat soon,
Dave