The I, your concerns right now were my exact concerns a little over a year ago. I come from a family with strong women. I support feminist movements and I agree that they are completely equal to men.

It took me a while to figure out, and this forum did help a lot. But what eventually did convince me entirely was finding someone who I knew to be smart, strong, and independent who was also increadibly submissive. After getting to know her on a more personal level, I realised that the two things, female submissiveness and feminism did not conflict. You'll be quite surprised, many if not most of the submissive females on this forum are quite headstrong and not the type you want to mess with in your ordinary life.

Also, a slight bit of contradiction, finding a woman who is submissive and knows she is, has a lot more control over her sexuality and to and extent, control over her life.

Anyhow, hope that helps, if you have more questions, you can PM me