" My ideal sub is a strong self-willed woman whose submission is valuable because it comes from love and trust. You can't give yourself if you don't own yourself." by leo9.

Because it was well worth repeating.

It sounds like what I have seen and heard many times. The liberalization of society has taught us to be converse to the many inclinations of man, to do what comes unnaturally as opposed to the natural it began in the west with the advent of Chistianity in some peoples opinion.

The "Transvaluation of Values" mentioned by Nietzsche and the "Bio-Truths of Dr. Lange (John Norman); as well as many other philosophers, consistantly point out how modern political and social values have been twisted to emasculate mankind, which does a great dis-service to both man and woman.

It is my opinion that your second guessing yourself comes from the many years of phycological conditioning that this society has fostered upon you against your will.

It should pass with time and experience.