So who am I and how I became so, why.
To start I must say I am dyslexic and if the spell checker brakes down then good luck reading this.

I am Dominant in my nature and a Master in my desire.

The first memory of this life style was at 6 years old I tied up a boy and girl and checked out all the bits and differences. I can remember the cam that spread through my as I took control and did as I wished, it was short lived as I didn't grow at the same speed as other kids and was 3 foot 2 inches going in to secondary school at age 12. The third smallest in the year, introverted and with a burning hatred of the bully's that picked daily on me.
Left school at 17 years old at the small end of average high but growing I found the world I had lost in the books of Gor and was happy that I had found them.
I never took them as the Holy grail of how to be a Dom or Master I took from them was the words "Be yourself truly" and I looked at my life and tried to work out who was I. This road lead to a long term relationship with a woman who wished rough and wild and painful sex and and control but we both could not put the word needed to express the needs and it went critical with her upset I walked out on her.
Then a short term go with a slave who was just every thing I wished but we went our different ways as she needed some thing I could not give.
Then Vanilla as the easy option, Wrong, it has taken my from 6 years old to 39 years old, and those with a calculator will work out thats 4 years short, to work out who I am and I can how see who to be true to.
I am a Gentleman, I am polite, I live as best I can by the three guides of Honesty, Respect, Consideration, I have honor and am loyal to my friends.
With in the bonds of My rules I am easy going and like to joke and play but the rules are there and if any are broken or bent to for then Punishment is the order of the day. I like to guide and have time in my life for the simple pleasures, I wish to live as I am a man who is in control of himself and his life and am happy to be open about it.
Why am I the way I am I cant say the psychologists in the room may say it has to with the time bullied and the lose of control but this started before. Some may say that the classic control freak is at work, then again I am my own control freak first every time and i set rules yes my own first and if my slave wants to brake them its fine I will happily with a grin on my face cane her ass blood red for her. I cant say why, why strawberry's not raspberries I could not say and as my slave can tell you "So what" I am happily me, still learning still growing but in my heart whole.

If this rises any questions please ask.

LordPathfinder