I better clarify my question a bit. I am not asking for the meaning of the terms sub, dom and switch. But I am asking how you know under which category you fall if you only have experience in one of them?

For example I myself have only fantasized and experimented with my submissive side. Being single I don't really have the opportunity to discover if I can play a dominant role as well. Possibly I enjoy it just as much, and possibly it doesn't do it for me at all. Anyway I am open to play both roles, at least until I know where my heart lies. And even then, if one would find that dominating is not his thing, can a person learn to enjoy it? I was wondering how you all see this and if someone may have experienced this?

Untill now I have always considered myself a switch for that reason. I figure both (maybe more for some) partners can have the most fun that way, to give and take.

I hope my question isn't too confusing.