I am like the others but in the different direction. I am a complete domme. I can not be a sub to anyone in any form, be it in bed or in every day life. I have to have control of most if not all things. My male lover at the moment is also a dom, but since I am as domme as I am it is almost like he is a switch to me (though he really isn't). It is just like I can not have a total equal, I have to have at least that smidge more control than everyone else around me.