Personally I would not do it if I didn't love my male partner. Since I am a switch, I enjoy assuming both roles; however, my major preferrance is to be in control and then eventually have the man get impatient and take control. To me, doing this without trust these days could end up being the last thing you may ever do. If love, trust, and respect are involved, you can definitely have tons of fun, but you can also set a few limits which may prove to be necessary.