Acceptable or No?

[Flaming_Redhead]

First, a no limits relationship should have no need for safe words.

I was kind of thinking the same thing.

If safe words are given and agreed upon, then they must be honored.

This is true.

Submissive is wrong for not completing command.

I don't think there was enough information given to determine whether or not the submissive was wrong to refuse. Even a slave has the right to veto anything that might harm her.

Dominate is wrong for ignoring safe words.

Generally, I agree. However, I have to wonder what control a Master has if punishment is able to be controlled by the slave with the use of a safe word. Punishment isn't the same as play and isn't meant to be enjoyed.

Both are wrong in entering a no holds barred/no limits relationship.

Why? I would think that anyone entering into this type of relationship would know each other well enough to be sure of what they're getting into.