Hi ~kay~,

People have offered such good insight thus far.

Regarding his comment of you not being in a relationship, I think that's a crappy thing to say! However, I also know for me being in the same circumstance (single for a bit)... it sort of has contributed to my having a hard time for the simple fact that I have been in charge of providing my own pleasure regularly... and I know just exactly what/how/where to do what needs to be done.

With that being said, if he takes the time to discover you he will surely make you cum. Communicate with him- let him know what feels good. Mostly, relax and do enjoy your body with him.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you darlin'. Women are all made up differently (multi-orgasmic, hard to make orgasm, etc) but one thing is for sure- if a man takes his time to discover a woman, he absolutely will bring her bliss.

Good luck.