Body Size & Shape

[SnickerKitten]

I tend to be much harder on myself as far as appearances go than on what appeals to me in other people. Ragoczy never lost his desire for me when I topped out at a size 14 but I was not happy with myself and felt less attractive to him in my own mind. Oddly enough, I did experience the sensation of feeling invisible in public.

I am now down to a size 4 and I feel extremely attractive. I am not entirely certain that it is being thinner that causes me to attract so much more attention in public as that I *feel* much more attractive and project a lot more self confidence. I think *that* is what attracts attention to me and keeps me far from invisible.

As far as how body type affects my view of other people... I prefer men to be thin but muscled and definately defined. Women I like soft and balanced; well-proportioned. If she's big on top then she needs to be big on the bottom, too.

-kitten

[icey]

Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a fat person?
not repelled but definately not attracted, i do have a huge fear of fat though
Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a thin person?
im straight but thin ...very thin women attract me, but men just of an average size not fat or thin.

What body type attracts you most?
average, i dont like fat thin or muscly 6 packs

How have your own body issues affected your love/sex life?
at times very badly, its never easy for me to be seen naked and never has been,i have an ED and when it's in full blown mode im terrified of anyone seeing or touching my body i dont even look at it myself lol which needless to say does not make sex easy or much fun
when you're visually and physically repelled by your own body its very difficult to be,feel or act sexual all you want to do is hide yourself away or cower in a corner and cry, and im embarrased to admit i have been known to do that.
and in D/s r/ships its even worse as you're not supposed to say no,or refuse to accept that your Dom/me thinks you're sexy attractive or whatever which then often leads to arguements or 'tellings off', so each time becomes more and more tense; for both parties.

[DirtyAmericanEcchi]

Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a fat person?
I am not attracted to those that are over weight, and for the overly obese I am somewhat repulsed physically - but this does not make them a bad person.

Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a thin person?
I am very attracted to women who are thin, or with slight curves. This is somewhat bias as I am a 6ft male with 150lbs that I carry around in body weight.

What body type attracts you most?
Skinny to curvy, as along as it is well proportion I am content.

How have your own body issues affected your love/sex life?
I am very confident in my love and sex life far as physical appearance. I tend not to dwell on my own level of physical attractiveness. I assume that if a tall skinny and mysterious man such as myself can get girls with out much effort on my part that I am doing well, and why question it? I realize that not every woman is attracted to by demeanor or body type, but I do have a niche market, and I am more then happy to shop there as well.