To me, every word you use is nothing but a label. Humans absolutely adore putting names to things. In my all my years of being in the BDSM lifestyle I have been called many things: kajira, slave, submissive, pet, cunt, whore, slut.....I am all these and more. True, some of the words make me feel different emotions, such as when Master calls me pet over cunt. But they are all just words and they don't change who I fundamentally am inside nor do they change my relationship with my Master. No matter what He calls me He is still my Master, my husband, my lover and I am still His submissive, His wife and His lover. Labels won't change any of that. I am still His and He is still mine.