Wow, at the time this post was new I was thinking about this very topic quite a bit! Here's what I've come up with:

1- For Ragoczy I am only submissive, if he ever let me top him that'd be over. Since I'm married to him that could cause some problems!

2- I can't submit to someone I've seen submit to someone else.

3- Never tried submitting to a woman, it would be an idea I'd be open to exploring except that Rago does not share. Again, though, she'd have to be purely dominant.

4- I like topping girls I REALLY like topping girls

5- I only like topping boys that are extremely submissive, gimme a sissy any day.

6- I have no vanilla interests whatsoever. Hell I can't even get off with purely vanilla sex *sigh*

7- I can't submit to someone unless sex is somehow involved and I need to have a Dom that is very nurturing.

8- I don't need sex to be involved to top someone.

9- When topping, I can be a sick, evil bitch OR a kindly, nurturing top

-kitten (who identifies herself as a submissive that tops.... not really a switch)