When I'm out and about, I'm in jeans and a t-shirt. Around the house, usually pj pants and a t-shirt or tank top. I'll dress up for scene play, yes. But, I don't spend my whole day and night dressed in leather and heels. In fact, my Master doesn't usually care for heels at all... I do... so I wear them when I go out.

I'm submissive all day and night, regardless of what I'm wearing. So, be who you are, and wear what your comfortable in.