So, a little topic for discussion as I'm quite interested to see what others feel about the subject: Clothes.
I got into this 'discussion' with a Dom, which started out OK, talking and exchanging ideas, but then went to 'kneel for me slut' and all that jazz, so I kinda let it go, but what pissed me off was the fact that he deduced I'm not a submissive just because I don't wear high heels and sexy effing underwear.
Now, I know that isn't true, I no longer care what a stranger thinks of me, but it got me thinking..
I'm positive that none of you spend your full day naked or in sexy lingerie, high heels and fully made up. [well, ok, maybe some exceptions exist, I don't know]
However, does the fact that I like baggy pants and t-shirts make me less submissive? I can understand why they might make me less feminine to some people, but nonetheless, I feel perfectly feminine and submissive in whatever I wear--it's still me, in the end.
Maybe it has something to do with my body, maybe it has something to do with my age, maybe it's the combination and as I grow older and my style and experiences evolve I'll know better.
Any thoughts on the subject? I'm all ears!