There's another married M/s couple on another BDSM site whose posts detail the fact that she is loved and cherished above all else, even though she's the type that unless you take her by the hand and lead her out will stand in the subway all day letting others go first.
I would like to thank Redhead and all others who have posted previously to me.
Maybe i am reading some meaning into this that isnt there, But when did being a caring. kind person who enjoys helping others become a bad thing?
I think that realizing your nature is never a bad thing, and that there is room in the lifestyle for every type of submissive, Switch or Dom/ma. I think that if you have realized that you have a need to be dominated, that you have discovered a Beautiful Part of yourself. I guess i just dont like the word doormat.