Kay i have the same problem. Hell i have never cum before, even during masturbation. The men i have been with have said the same thing, as your other half has and the same thing as the others who have commented have.

For me i went to the doctor to make sure i actually could cum period, and or to make sure nothing is wrong with me, they say im 'a-okay'. But i am still left with no cumming.

Tasking, and training have been done on me to an extent, and that hasent worked either. Relaxing, and or playing with myself to see what works for me just turns into a marathon with my fingers, and a handful of batteries for my vibe but to no avil. Still cant cum. Ive spent hours on myself, and in the end, just end up falling asleep, or crying from frusteration. Ive had my boyfriends work on me for hours to no such luck. Its not the lack of trying that gets me, and or the lack of fun. Believe me i have a lot of fun when sexual with someone, its just i cant get over the "hump" so to speak.

I personally dont know whats wrong with me, ive been with some great lovers, and some not so great lovers, i guess i think about it as, ill cum in time. -shurgs-

If being self concious was the problem for me then why cant i cum when im masturbating? Ill never know i guess and this question has been asking many times before by me and others on the libarry that have the same problem.

I have no answer for you, but i just wanted you to know that you are not alone in your quest to find the answer, and if i ever find the answer i will let you be the frist person to know.

Good luck!