Submissives & Slaves: Who am I? How did I get here?

[MacGuffin]

Every time i was entertaining fantasies they had a submissive/humiliating or just downright nonconsentual subtext.
Let's be careful here and not confuse nonconsensual fantasies, like rape, with consensual bdsm submission. There is a difference.

And so far the journey into my submissiveness is totally awesome, even if most of the stuff we do probably is still rather vanilla.
Vanilla or bdsm doesn't matter. They are merely labels. The most important consieration is, do you enjoy it, and awesome answers that question.

Me, i completely disagree, but then again, he's the Dom so i guess he's right.
How could I possibly disagree with that comment

[lucy]

Every time i was entertaining fantasies they had a submissive/humiliating or just downright nonconsentual subtext.
Let's be careful here and not confuse nonconsensual fantasies, like rape, with consensual bdsm submission. There is a difference.

Of course you're completely right. I am fully aware that there is a huge difference between lying in bed and entertain fantasies of a nonconsentual nature and willingly and on my own choice submit to another person.
I utterly detest nonconsensuality and when i am on the story board, the tag "nc" usually keeps me from clicking on the link to the full story. I tried to write stories with a nonconsentual plot, but found out i couldn't do it (however, i realized that stories with the "nc" code get much more attention)
Still, those fantasies are within me. And they're a great disturbance, but i think that's fodder for another thread.