Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Bull!! Her intent is clear.

And let's be clear about her use of the language. She's not making any consideration for any form of infidelity. Permission granted or not, open relationship or not, poly or not. Hell, by her words, poly itself is infidelity.
Well, it clearly wasn't clear, because I didn't necessarily take it that way. I leave some room for the possibility that, in forming her post, she used the word "you" generically and possibly neglected to articulate a "without prior agreement"-clause, maybe thinking it was understood in the context.

So I asked a question to clarify ... is that so unreasonable?