Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post
Would you not agree that there's a different between a consensual, open relationship and a circumstance where one partner believes the relationship is monogamous and the other is betraying that trust?
Yup.



And just to add in my two cents about the judgments...everyone judges. It's healthy to judge. To form opinions. It doesn't mean one has to be nasty about it. People judge in different ways. Some people judge on moral values, religious values, and some people judge on judging others. lol. If you can follow that.

I believe there is little to none of us that never judge a person. I have found that many who are screaming "don't judge me, I don't judge you" really ARE judging just as (if not more) harshly those people that form opinions right away.

(And like I said, just because a person forms an opinion and will not be swayed doesn't make them a bad person, nor do their opinions need to be shared in a mean or hurtful way).