i'm the totally inexperienced one around here.. but i love being the submissive i'm. never have played online so don't know about that either, but when i come here to chat, i usually dress in something.. well not sure if sexy is the word, but love wearing just a short cami and panties . sometimes high heels, so i *feel* taller. when i go out, depending on the mood and my naughtiness.. yes i have been known to go out without panties.. it gives me a bit of a vulnerable feeling. Not sure if that makes sense. love wearing a corset to the club, with the waist cinched really tight, again it reminds me who and what i'm. A few weeks ago went to a bdsm leather event, darn some of the men really looked hot in their leathers.. in more ways then one. And i must say.. i love a man in uniform.. that can be sooo hot.