How to "recognize" a submissive

[Havensov]

I know that this may not help those looking for submissive women in a public place, but it might for those looking to see if the ones they are already with are.

It has been my experience that in the bedroom, and especially during sex, that I can tell if she is submissive. I think this has something to do with all the barriers coming down during an intimate act. All the walls, masks, and acting drops and you can truly see them for their true desires. I have found three of my past lovers were submissive this way. Two of which during the day were ones that you would not think were submissive.

What to look for?
If, like a dance, she lets you lead the sex.
If she looks at your pleasure first to her own.

Just my thoughts...

[Ozme52]

What to look for?
If, like a dance, she lets you lead the sex.
If she looks at your pleasure first to her own.

Just my thoughts...

While it sounds good... it just isn't true in my opinion.

Might I suggest that, like dancing, she just may think it's appropriate to let the man lead the sex. But that doesn't mean she has given over ANY sort of power exchange. It doesn't mean there is a hint of the Bottom within her.

And as to the other... selfless doesn't mean submissive. In fact, a woman who willingly spreads her legs solely for my pleasure but takes none for herself, who does so merely for her love of me... well, it's actually a passion killer.