I've been told that I'm barely submissive. I've also been regarded as a doormat by others. I guess it depends on which way the light reflects off my hair. Actually, I'm not service oriented, meaning that I don't submit out of a need to serve. I submit out of love, i.e. the desire to make the people I love happy. Everyone else can kiss my ass!
AWSOME!!! I know how you feel on that score glad to see that I'm not the only one of that mind
loving your self if MUCH harder than finding some one who will love you