ok i am going to try to post to this without coming accross like a ... green horn bitch?? lol
i have been told that i am not "Domme" enough and i am not strict enough because i enjoy a girl that might push somtimes and shows her personality instead of being a robot
so if she shows her ass sometimes it actually makes me fall harder because i can push back.. it is like a game and because i can see the person i first fell for... before i or she decided on being Mistress/sub.
I really apprieciate rNt for starting this thread. Because there are some Dom/me's that do like feisty subs.
And what is more i def agree that this title is not taken or assumed.. it is given and earned then proven.
and a sub is a sub by his/her own choosing or heart, and no one can question that. No one sub or Dom/me hs the right to dictate or question what you think or know you are.. you may not work for some Dom/me as i may not be harsh enough for some subs. but this realtionship as in ANY relationship D/s, vanilla, or other is nothing more than 2 people who meet and their chemistrys/phermones, interests/personalities, kinks/carreers, loves/ hates, match and they complement each other.
as not every person you meet in life is meant to be you friend or lover, not every Dom/me, sub is going to mesh and work. there are many levals to look at and condsider.
and about you rNt? i personally think you are a great sub and woman. Strong and independant, yet soft and submissive.. a smart ass, and a kind soul.. what could anyone want for more than that?