I've been thinking....

[shayna{L_D}]

Thank you all for your comments, good or bad. Like they say 'opinions are like assholes everyone has one'. I want to thank everyone for putting in their two cents, i liked hearing from both subs and Dom's. This made me see that just becuase i am assertive doesnt mean that i am a bad sub. Submissives come in all different forms, you shouldnt have to change yourself to be with someone that goes for vanilla and for D/s. Before you get into any relationship, vanilla or bdsm you most of the time get to know that other person before jumping into anything, which means that you know their personality. If you dont like them dont date them, dont think to yourself 'oh i can maybe change that person'. Never works. I refuse to change how i am, i like how i am, i like my personality. Ive learned through all your replys and from my Dom that just bc i am assertive, out spoken and 'in your face' doenst mean i am any less submissive.



I just wanted to add as an afterthought, that in no way did any of you that openly admitted to asking if i had Dom tendencys, did you disrespect me or hurt me in any way, nor did it question my submission. If anything i helped me want to learn more about my submission and about different ways people submit to there Dom/Master.