BDSM And Feminism: Intertwined? How So?

[denuseri]

Giggles I just figured i better point out the irony in stereotyping catagorically.

"I find those women who say that they are not feminists to be spoiled, rude and ungrateful. And also ignorant, because one of the meanings of the word feminist is to be of feminine character. So if you are not feminine, what are you, butch? " by damyanti

Just to use myself as an example:

Again I must say I most certianly am not a feminist.

I have never been spolied other than to have good gender based role models for parents and a Master that puts my life above his own.

Admitably I am sometimes rude, but I am working on it.

No one that I have had contact with to my knowledge has said I am ungrateful, heck I even thank the dominants in my life for spanking my ass among other things winks (IE: OWWWW! two! Slut thanks Master! may she have another? )

I am far to much of a girlie girl (despite being raised rather tomboyishly) with a out of control hello kitty fettish to be even remotely accosiated with being "butch".

Ignorance might be bliss, but the little korean boy that heads the chess team in the honors room at school does fear my approch for a reason, and it's not becuase I have nice legs or a naughty nature that knows when he is looking at my mouth he is thinking about anything but the game (licks my lips). It's actually probabley got more to do with something about my wicked end game or the way I out think him.

Historically speaking:

The conseptualization of what it means to be "feminine" ergo to be "female" existed for tens of thousands of years perhaps even longer (even before "language" fully developed) which is a far better example of precedance than any recent mis-conseptualization by the so called feminists....... who have managed to twist and transvaluate values (to quote niestche).

So I find the your statement saying it must be this or that (feminist or butch) indicative of sophistry as it is a catagorically spurious corelation with little relevance to any logic in your argument other than to attempt to invoke an emotional responce instead of apealing to reason.

Just for paradoxical purposes:

If I am a feminist then you are a kajira!

And, darling, you may not wish to call yourself one, but you are a kajira. In fact, you are my kajira girl icon in waiting. (and I considered you that before this thread. (winks)