faking it

[fetishdj]

Yeah, well, when I am focussed on the (very small) target we have to aim for I usually can't pay attention to non verbal cues

It is totally unfair - we make it very easy for you and can't fake it (without the use of a talented special effects team and some uncomfortable tubing)

[lucy]

Yeah, well, when I am focussed on the (very small) target we have to aim for I usually can't pay attention to non verbal cues

yeah, large targets rock

[Flaming_Redhead]

I don't cum easily. I faked it all the time when I was married so he'd hurry up and get the hell off of me. *lol* When I started a BDSM relationship, I was amazed that I had an orgasm the first time we had sex. Of course, I was disappointed when it didn't always happen. I faked it sometimes because I was "this" close and just couldn't, even though he was doing the same thing that got me off before. Then, he got smart. He made me tell him when I was cumming, and I'm a terrible liar so......I had to start telling him when I couldn't. Seriously, I don't know how that man managed to hold off as long as he did....heh heh heh. Anyway, I now have no problem telling someone when it's just not working.

[Pearlgem]

That's the thing, isn't it, at least if the guy cares about you . . . getting so close but just not there especially when he's doing the same thing that worked last time. There's very little you can do to make it happen so the temptation beckons . . .
I admit I spent decades of my life not being able to orgasm until one day (it was March 3rd 19--) it built - and spilled! Hooray! (Funny, I'd just been in the AOL Submissives' Room for the first time the previous night . . .) I became an avid practitioner, honing my technique with batteries, plugs and clamps. Now the orgasms I can give myself are truly wonderful. I can control the build up deliciously, the spasm comes and I swear, if I don't remove the stimulus from my clit, my clit stays switched ON until I'm sick of pleasure. I say all this not to boast but to reassure anyone out there reading this that if you practise on yourself, get vibrating, give yourself the bondage, gagging and pain you need, enter the mindset with stories pictures, fantasies, you're bound be achieve that elusive O sometime. Don't despair, relax and enjoy in your own time.
But I also have to admit that the orgasms my Master gives me by his own hand are not so overwhelming. I don't see how they can be since I'm not the one doing the manipulation, fine-controlling my responses. But my mind is excited, my body is ready, my cunt is wet and I get a similar 'on' feeling but usually without that spasm. That's the bit I admit I fake. There, I feel better for telling you.

[Flaming_Redhead]

Of course it's easier to give yourself a big orgasm! It's a little trickier for someone else to do it. It takes me a long time to cum that way with a partner. He has to stimulate my clit with his thumb or tongue, back off, stimulate, etc., while simultaneously fingering my G-spot and my ass until his hand cramps. *lol* Anal sex and clitoral stimulation will do it for me. Asphyxiation is a sure fire way to get a scream out of me. I need to start dating an octopus. *ggls*

[shayna{L_D}]

I need to start dating an octopus. *ggls*

ROFL, yes... i think so..

[Pearlgem]

Oz, do you think you could do us a favour, record a message and put it on YouTube or somewhere convenient for all us nearly-there gals ? We'll attend to the bottom half and let you deal with the top.