Quote Originally Posted by restrainedNtrained View Post
I think that its more accepted in the vanilla world becuase some guys just dont care, they are in and out and dont give a damn about what the girl wants and or whatnot.
I'm sorry you experienced that. I think it's the same in the bdsm world though- there's selfish people in both.

I've on rare occasion faked an orgasm- but not because it didn't feel good- more so that I wasn't going to orgasm and I didn't want them to feel bad either. It was more increasing the intensity of my real moans. I have a hard time cumming and an easy time being really wet and having a wave of little mini cums. But it took me a while in life to be comfortable with the fact I don't achieve the big O easily and communicate with a partner. It was partly out of embarrassment I guess. Thought something must have been wrong since I can't orgasm from just intercourse alone.

I think that's why I'm so into the idea of forced orgasms. Maybe it would help redirect my body