New sub/slave both on line and in life needs guidance

[SUBtly_shy]

hi
still learning myself so bare with me. speeking from my exsperince, a master that knows you well and cares about you WILL push you. Though never a point that you can not handle. If you are in a situation that you can not handle, emotionaly, mentaly physicly you need to be able to comunicate that with a safe word or a "yellow" word safe meaning OH MY GOD STOP EVERYTHING and yellow meaning hey I need to talk to you this is a bit much. D/S is FUN thing its a way to enjoy the person you are sharing it with. Your master should not be angry with you if you cant handle something because at the end of the play he should still care for you regardless of how your play time went. The whole point is the pleasure regardless of what method you use to get it. SO long story short talk to your dom if he's unwilling to hear how you feel and work with you on it. You may want to reconsider your choice in a dom
hope I helped always here if you need to talk!

[slave4ever96]

Thank you shy for your advice. My Dom says he cares how i feel and had stoped because i was near tears but he also has the mindset that since he is Master his word is final. While i do like many of the other things he provides for me sometimes i worry he may not consider that a few things may be to much for me to handel so soon. Because he feels he must train me and not stop my training just because im not willing to push my limits as much as he is.