New sub/slave both on line and in life needs guidance

[good_girl]

Some really good advice here, remember, safe words are not only for physical things but emotional as well. If you feel that you are in either physical or emotional distress then it is your responsibility to communicate this to him and his responsibility to take care of you.

As for the fisting this might give both of you a bit more insight http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=13282

[slave4ever96]

Thanks everyone your advice is helpful and i am hoping that he will be willing to discuss it with my. i have sent the hard limits questionair to him and hopefully tomorrow when i return home i will have a reply from him. Keep sending me advice they are all very helpful.