Frying Scot I cant say I really disagree with you
Though from my position as a very much loved sub your comment
" it's about power sharing. The sub is ALWAYS in control."
doesn't quite fit, for me one of the truly amazing things is being able to let go of control. KNOWING that my Dom loves me and will care for my needs; and my health. Being able to trust enough to let go of my need of control it is a beautiful and special thing to me.

so no argument from me just a different perspective