Not to horn in on/hijack ~kay~'s thread but I'm compelled to ask...any thoughts on a female who has no problem with orgasms by herself, but either goes numb, or is only able to find a modicum of (emotional/mental) satisfaction in bringing her Dom/Master/partner pleasure/to orgasm?

(And if anyone thinks I should start my own thread re.this matter, please let me know. TY.