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[blythe spirit]

Shayna, do you really hate it, or the traumatic past experiences associated with it?

When I was very young, very, very young, the guy I was going with tried it - he didn't know what he was doing, obviously, because he, too, was young. It hurt like hell and I made him stop. And from then on it was forbidden territory. lol

Now, one of my best friends is my butt plug and I enjoy using it. But as someone else said, it's working your way up to it. Training your anus so to speak. The anus stretches. And yes, being very excited helps as does lots of lube, which was mentioned as well.

I am interested, however, why you hate it. Is it the physical pain, emotional pain, or could there be a humiliation factor for you?

[shayna{L_D}]

Shayna, do you really hate it, or the traumatic past experiences associated with it?

When I was very young, very, very young, the guy I was going with tried it - he didn't know what he was doing, obviously, because he, too, was young. It hurt like hell and I made him stop. And from then on it was forbidden territory. lol

Now, one of my best friends is my butt plug and I enjoy using it. But as someone else said, it's working your way up to it. Training your anus so to speak. The anus stretches. And yes, being very excited helps as does lots of lube, which was mentioned as well.

I am interested, however, why you hate it. Is it the physical pain, emotional pain, or could there be a humiliation factor for you?

Its more of the physical pain then anything else. And yes i really think i dont like it bc of the bad expierences ive had with it.

when i was with my exgf of a two years, we tried it and it didnt feel good. We tried the whole slowlying working up to you, and stimulating other things when she was doing it but nothing really got me going on it yano what i mean? Nothing got me over the physical pain and hurt i was feeling. *shurgs* maybe one day??