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hi hun first to answer your questions (though I'm not a top/ dom)

Do you equate proper dictation with Dominance? Why, or why not?

No I do not think that proper dictation is a sign of Dominance. I think it is a sign that you prefer to take pride in the way you speak there is a difference. Everyone has one or two things that are there way of showing respect for themselves and the people around them. Yours seems to be in taking pride in the way you speak to others. That isn't a dominant or submissive trait its just part of who you are in my book.

Do you see honorifics as a necessity? Why, or why not?

No I do not think honorifics are necessary. I think showing respect for a fellow human being is a must but all title ect have to be earned. For me I like to treat people in the bdsm community exactly the same as I would in real life if I were to bump into them.

Do you find a strong personality to be a turn on or a turn off? Why?

I find a strong personality very attractive. Regardless of if I want to pursue a relationship or just a friendship with that person. People with a strong seance of self are MUCH more fun .

Long post short, you have every right to be yourself with both strengths and weaknesses. People should value you as you are. Being smart and confidant in yourself makes you more desirable person regardless of the type of relationship you chose to be in.