Intelligence and Submission.

[shayna{L_D}]

Okay iPet you and i have almost the same thread going on here. *cough* you can view it sometime yano *cough*




When a Dom/me tries to force me to call them 'Sir' or 'Ma'am', then I have an issue. I feel those honorifics should be earned, not given freely like candy.


I said the SAME excat thing in my thread, but i said Halloween candy and slurpees

I feel the same way, why should i bow down to just anyone and say Sir or Master, it was VERY rare to see me call someone Sir or Master. Only the people that have earned respect. I just feel like its overused it you yourself say it to much. It doesnt mean or sound the same when you have a Master becuase you are going around saying Sir, Ma'am, Mistress and or Master to everyone that is Dom. Im glad we see eye to eye on this..


I realize by saying this I will be ostracized as 'not a good sub' by most individuals, but it is how I feel, and damnit, I'm not going to lie to make you like me. A relationship, friend or otherwise, founded on such small details like that, is not worth having in my opinion.

I said almost the same thing also, and i was told that i wasnt a bad sub which i already knew was the truth




Then there is Strength of Personality. Some Tops see me, and see how I interact, and feel like I'm not a real submissive, or else, view it all as a game, because I have such a strong personality, and refuse to let just anyone walk all over me.

Said that same thing here also, i get 'are you a Domme?' all the time, im sure you know that bc of yano recent events in chat, but why does having a strong personality like you and i have, mean we are Doms? I love my personality and i am not changing it for anyone, period. The Dom will love me and or like me for who i am not for who i pretend to be.


Now onto your questions


Do you equate proper dictation with Dominance? Why, or why not?
No, i mean you cant be a complete airhead or misspell everything but most Doms in my eyes comes in many different forms. Some have bad grammar, some have AWESOME grammar. Some are so smart it makes me want to throw up, others dont know the difference between know or no. I think Dominance is all about how you carry yourself and how you show yourself to the world. Not about grammar or smarts its about a lot more then that, and if my brain could work right now id fil ya in.

Do you see honorifics as a necessity? Why, or why not?

Not unles you are in a relationship or under that persons concideration. It would lose all meaning to me if i was like 'Good Evening Sir/Master, how are You?' to my Master then said the SAME thing to some other wanna be Dom, who probably doesnt know what BDSM is..

Do you find a strong personality to be a turn on or a turn off? Why?

Im guessing this is more for Dom/es. But to me no, a lot of people have come to love my personality as strong as it is. They say it may make me harder to tame but do you see me changing anytime soon, nope!

[Veridical]

Okay iPet you and i have almost the same thread going on here. *cough* you can view it sometime yano *cough*

Silence, woman. I didn't know you had one. -Bites.-